"Before success comes in any man's life, he's sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That's exactly what the majority of men do."
Napoleon Hill
Do you not like the way your life is going? Do you simply wish you could have more of something, whether its passion, love, happiness, money, etc..? The truth is, whatever it is, we have the ability to achieve what we desire, as long as we put forth the necessary action.
The reason why the human race has survived and prospered for so long is singly related to our ability to adapt and change. Whether you like it or not you have to begin to accept responsibilities for the situations your currently in, and take the necessary action to change them for the better.
The first step in changing your life and accomplishing your dreams is changing the questions your currently asking. Most people are usually stuck in a cycle, in which they consistently ask the same questions over and over again. For example questions like; How do I solve my debt situation, what do I need to do to fix my marriage, how do I make more money, why is my life the way it is. These types of questions focus on the negative, and will keep you in the negative if you let them. Change the questions your asking yourself and life, and you will change your answers.
Positive questions generally get positive results, while negative questions usually result in negative results. By merely changing your vocabulary slightly and the way you ask the questions you can change your life in moments.
Step one
~ Make a list of all the negative questions you've been asking.
Step two
~ Make another list paralleling you negative questions with replacement with positive ones. Replacing questions such as; Why is everything going wrong, with; What do I need to do to make everything go right?
Step three
~ Make note to stop asking yourself negative questions throughout the day, replace them with positive ones, and make it a ritual to view your list of positive questions daily.
1 comment:
yeah...I'm the first comentator...
actually, I hate a negative changes in my life. But the fact, I've to face it...feel so hard but show must go on..
cheers...
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